Lovick Life Coach | Bromley (London)
Lovick Life Coach | Bromley (London)
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Life caching will help get you over the Grief and Heartbreak of what you might have to leave behind
” The relationship you have with yourself is the ONLY relationship you have 100% control over….. Make it a good one!”
Everyone has relationships, even if it’s just the one you have with yourself. So it’s not surprising that everyone knows someone that has suffered as the result of a relationship gone wrong. Divorce is considered the second most stressful event (after the death of a loved one), so it’s no surprise that the fallout can be overwhelming and invoke many other painful, and often unwanted, changes in your life. A Divorce and Breakup Recovery Coach can help ensure, that even when your world is in turmoil you can still;” Sometimes it’s OK to not be OK! “
Forgiveness is one of the hardest things to overcome especially if required at the end of a long relationship or marriage. It can also be one of the most destructive emotions to carry with you in your new life.
Processing your grief and learning to forgive is one of the most powerful skills you can equip yourself with, and a Divorce Coach can help, providing you with the tools and strategies to overcome these painful, unhelpful emotions.
By working with a Divorce Recovery Life Coach you will learn to give yourself permission to not be okay and to allow yourself the time to have your feelings heard and then be able to process them to make choices based on your preferred outcomes.
You will believe that you have the power within you to make changes and you will feel empowered to start taking action toward your new life.
You are in charge and I won’t let you forget that.
“ If you always do what you’ve always done you’ll always get what you always got.”
It may be hard to imagine you will ever get there, but everything you want at the end of a relationship is outside of your current comfort zone. (Especially the relationship you have with yourself!)
It’s not going to be easy but with a Divorce Recovery Life Coach, you can expect to be challenging yourself into doing things you may never have considered before – life can be good again and you are going to make it so.
Change is good if we approach it right. Having a Divorce Coach by your side will ensure your changes are positive, manageable and truly in line with what you really want to achieve.
As your coach, I will remind you that changes change and sometimes we get so caught up in the process we forget to check we are on the right path.
Life can be good again and you are going to make it so.
“Every second that goes by is a second gone”
As someone who has lived through the pain and bitterness of divorce and heartbreak, the risk and uncertainty of career change, the minefield of single parenting and the massive wake-up call that is Cancer I can honestly say I understand the journey you may be on.
I have created my new life using positivity, acceptance and forgiveness and am massively motivated to help others achieve the same.
We say life is too short but we often don’t truly realise how short. Well, I don’t know what’s around the corner any more than you do but I do know that it’s the best version of me that is going to face it.
I am the author of ‘The Other Half of Me’, a fictional novel inspired by my breakup, where I write about the impact of divorce and relationship challenges on children and the importance of being selfless. Teaching them how to have an amicable divorce, even under testing circumstances.
I hope it helps others to complete their own journey through the pain of heartbreak with as much positivity as they are capable of. We would all do anything for our children (they are our legacy after all), … BUT many of us won’t give them a happy divorce.
I want to change that!
There is a poem in my new book, ‘The Other Half of Me’ which is very close to my heart. I wrote it one night during the heartbreak of my divorce. It’s amazing how emotions can bring out your creative side, and it can be a really cathartic process. So if you are feeling sad, take a pen and write until all your emotions are on the paper. Write like no one is going to read it! It can be an empowering process!
